Your mind is always working, all day and all night, 24/7. Here’s the thing – your mind is either working for you or against you all the time, and you get to choose. Depending on your state of mind – faith or fear, desire or doubt – your mind will ensure that you get exactly what you expect and believe you are worthy of receiving. If you choose to believe, really believe, that you should receive what you want…your mind goes to work for you and helps you find the ways to get it. Your mind has an amazing and predictable capacity to give you the ideas, solutions, and the resources needed to solve your challenges and reach your goals. The mind is s your Secret Genie that is saying to you “your wish is my command”. So tell your Secret Genie what you want, why you want it, that you are deserving, and then do what is needed with total faith in a positive outcome…and your results will improve dramatically.
The challenge in this fairly simple approach lies in our Inner Beliefs – self doubt, fear, worry, insecurity, distrust – and a variety of defeating personal characteristics like Indecision, Procrastination, Laziness, Disorganization, and Apathy. You can learn to change any of these that you have, and you must change these if you want to improve your results. I can provide a variety of resources to help you improve your mental and emotional approach. So reach out for a no-obligation helping hand, as I’m glad to share what helped me discover how to command my Secret Genie.
Getting what we want in our lives requires a minimum of these things:
- Faith In Oneself
- Burning/Passionate Desire
- Persistent/Continuous Action.
These are the basics and, yes, there are other factors and personality attributes that influence our results. To get the Universal Laws of Cause and Effect, Vibration/Attraction, and others working with us…we need to use our Imagination to build and hold in the screen of our mind the image of what we want and who we want to become. We use our Will Power to focus on and hold this this image in our mind every day, and through Repetition, we convince our mind that this is our new reality…we create a new, empowering, positive Paradigm (belief system).
“You can attract only that which you mentally become and feel yourself to be in reality.”
~ Ernest Holmes ~
“Take bold, consistent action in the face of uncertainty.”
~ Jonathan Fields ~
Feeling good about you today? Are you your biggest fan or biggest heckler?
You were born incredible talent and capability and you’ve spent your life building on that…improving, adding on, becoming better. You’ve overcome so many obstacles, demonstrated perseverance, intelligence, will power, imagination, passion and so much more.
So what reason do you have to doubt yourself?
Do not fall into the trap of comparing yourself to anyone else…it’s a losing proposition, especially if you are harshly self-critical. There’s only one YOU – just make the most of YOU and everything will take care of itself. Let them be them, and let you be YOU!
You are uniquely gifted and capable – you just need to Believe in yourself. This I can show you how to do, so give me a call.
Do not overestimate the competition and underestimate yourself. You are better than you think.”
~ Timothy Ferriss ~
Will you at your best today? Yes, if you have Confidence-Faith in yourself, and if you are comfortable in our own skin, and if you lead with your passion and love. Your talents, your feelings, and your style are unique to you. Abstain from playing the ‘comparison game’ with someone you admire, there’s no point to it. If you need competition, then compete with yourself…compete against your thoughts and feelings that want to hold you back from taking productive actions that move you towards positive outcomes…and challenge yourself to bring out your best. I guarantee that your best is plenty good, even great, and it’s uniquely you.
Enjoy the inspiring quotes below.
“Confidence is a choice, not a symptom. You succeed because you’ve chosen to be confident.“
~ Seth Godin ~
“When I experience and accept myself exactly as I am, then I change.“
~ Cherie McCoy ~
Since childhood I have had the bad habit of comparing myself to others, and what a dis-service it’s been to me. Why? Because in doing so, I focus on what I perceive to be areas that I am lacking in. I’ve been overly self-critical, putting more energy on the 5%-10% that did not go exactly as planned at the expense of focusing on the 90%-95% that did go as planned.
I’ve become aware of this bad habit and I’ve learned that this habit of thinking fails to support the results nor the feelings that I want to enjoy. So, I now choose to focus on the good…and to stop comparing myself to others, instead focusing on being the best “me” that I can be. My/our goal is not to be the best replica of someone else whom we admire. We are all uniquely talented and we should embrace this, nurture this, and be comfortable being our most authentic self. Agreed?
That said, enjoy the 2 quotes below.
“When you are content to be simply yourself and don’t compare or compete, everybody will respect you. ”
~ Lau-Tzu ~
“When I experience and accept myself exactly as I am, then I change.”
~ Cherie McCoy ~
Is your Attitude as positive as it needs to be about what you want to achieve?
Check yourself on this because your Attitude can be positive/constructive in some areas and negative/destructive in other areas.
Your results are a direct reflection of your Attitude (thoughts, feelings, actions). So to change your results, you must first change your Attitude. If you want better results but you are not consciously doing things to create a new and more empowering Attitude, you are swimming upstream against a very strong “current”…which is your currently limiting Attitude. This won’t allow you won’t move forward with any speed. Changing your Attitude means developing 2 Habits: (1) BELIEF – truly believing you are capable of achieving your goals, and (2) ACTION – taking continuous, persistent action on your plans.
Quote: “Change the way you look at things, and the things you look at change.” Wayne Dyer
Tom Pearson – Personal Success Coach, Own My Greatness